About finding out the results for a paternity test in 3 weeks I'm beyond worried ;/

Im in the same boat... tomorrow will be about 25 days until my period... its going to be a long 25 days. And people have been telling me just to forget.. not easy.. at all.. chances are very slim. Very. But there's still that tiny voice that's in the back of your head.. I wish you luck!

Why are you worried about the test ?

Whenever I got into a stressful, worried state of this MAGNITUDE I just rode the waves of my own stupidity. I had to accept the situation I put myself in. I freaked out because the timing was all wrong, and it all could have been avoided if I only I listened. But hey, that wouldn't be growing up!

Still, I vowed never again to His Almighty, had my Mothers advice echoing in my head and sweated for days etc. until I was in the clear. It took three heavy duty experiences before I grew a brain! My lesson was and although I did not like it at the time; there was nothing that was given me that I could not handle. Secondly, it did not kill me! Thirdly, I learned to accept those things I can not always be in control of and accepted responsibility for the things I can.

Today, I try and turn every negative into a positive.