Hi , I recently met a man at a church function, he was so excited to meet me as he said we met 25 years ago and he has thought about me ever since. And he couldn't believe he had met me again and wanted me to ring him and get together.This was three weeks ago we have been for a coffee and he has dropped around my place once.We talk on the phone at least twice a week, He has also started coming to my church. And I am really starting to like him a lot and this scares me because he hasn't asked me out and he is backing of a bit. He is not ringing as much and I am not sure where I stand as he will give me the impression he really wants me in his life then the next min I could be jo blow. My head says just take it easy and I do, but my heart has fallen in love and I haven't felt this way in a long time . Thanks

Honey, seriously. This is obviously the guy you dream of! First of all, find out if he already has a girlfriend. If he doesn't, then you know that he isn't avoiding you for that.
Secondly, take and deep breath. I know the feeling of love makes you nearly hyper, but this will make him like you even less. And trust me, you don't want to scare him off.
Finally, be smooth about it. Flirt slightly with him, help him often, but don't be too overwhelming. Before you know it he'll be running right after you. Good luck!