I am in a relationship with a man who is living with another woman. When we meet he says he was going to move out, that was last summer. He is still with her. I am in love with him. Every time I leave him alone, he calls me all day or comes by my home. He says that he loves me and don't want to be without me. I have his home address, home phone number, mothers address, and number. So its not like he's keeping me a secret because I meet his mom many times. I want to be happy with him and want to believe he loves me also. I don't know what to do! :(

My dear woman, what makes you think this man is going to leave the woman he is living with, if he has not done it by now?

Sure he calls you all the time, he wants you to hang around, to keep you on the hook, so you do not go out and find a WORTHY SINGLE MAN. A man who is not living with another woman, a man who can make a commitment to you, a man who does not go sneaking around on one girlfriend to see the next girlfriend. He is having his cake and eating it too.

You want to be happy with him? Tell him to fish or cut bait on this. He either dumps his live in girlfriend for good and then can start a real honest relationship with you OR he can go to hell. Period.

Don't be the lonesome, longtime martyr in this triangle.

If he really wants to be with you, why is he still living with the other woman? I really doubt he does. He would be living with you by now...

RED FLAG!!!!! He has been lying for six or seven months and you still are with him. Beware the liar who cannot live on his own and have an honest relationship. Ask him what kind of tall tales he is telling the woman he lives with. Wake up and stop this farce. Why do you let him play you. You deserve better don't you? Sorry. Ain't that much love in the world, to make you somebodies fool.

The first and ONLY thing to do when you find yourself in a love triangle is GET OUT. Only then will you be able to look back and ask yourself what the @#$#@ was I doing and answer yourself clearly! Otherwise stay but know that you sign up for all the drama, confusion, lies, hurt, betrayal and sickeningly crappy sense of self that comes with it too. Sorry, but that is just how it works. Your choice.