I'm going to keep it short, basically my boyfriend has been best friends with this girl for abut 10 years, we haven't been together too long but for our anniversary of 3 months I thought we would have done something together, but instead he went out with just her for a meal for her birthday (he birthday was two days after this), he brought her TWO Pandora charms because she wanted them/asked him for them? I am not usually a jealous person but I can't stop thinking about it, they constantly text and whenever she needs someone he's there, even if its take a light bulb round! Is something going on? Should I find someone else?

I have had this Same thing happen with me when I was in a relationship with my ex. We had been dating for about 3 months as well and when my birthday came he had to be reminded of that fact but he was able to remember his best friend (who was also a girl)had an art show that day and he got her a present. Im not usually the jealous type either but we argued about it quite a few times and he basically told me that she was his best friend and that he wasn't going to give that up for our relationship. I suggest you talk to him about it and make him aware of how your feeling and if he truly cares he will respect your feelings.