Ok I've never had a boyfriend (ok I mean like I did but I never really liked them all that much) and this one guy he's a complete *******, always so mean and I can rant all day long but anyway I didn't know that because I was new at the school at the time. I heard he liked me and we ended up dating, and at first I liked him but not like obsession nerve wracking like.

He broke up with me saying that I'm turning into a Brittney. I asked what that was (shes my friend) and he replies "someone that is annoying and mean to certain people"

Its been four months and I can't seem to get him off my mind. Every time he's around I feel really nervous and sick almost like I'm about to throw up. I seem to blush and can't stop laughing at all his gay jokes. He's really nice at times and SUPER funny-not to mention cute- but sometimes (pssh more than a bit) he's a ****. Like a total *******. I want to move on its been 5 months! Its ridiculous. Please help!

Hanging around a guy who dumped you makes it really hard to put the feelings behind you. I think in your efforts to put up the brave front, and be normal, like its no big deal is what's keeping the memories, and feelings alive.

You need a change in scenery, friends, and activities for a while.