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So you do without it. You never force or try to make someone do something they don't want to do.

Some women don't want to and never will. Some try, stop first time and never do it again.
So get over it.

You just can't get her to do it? Just get yourself to get over it.

First, this question is in the teen section, and we don't give sex advice to teens.

Second, if she doesn't want to, she doesn't have to, and there's nothing you can do to make her.

So you have to decide. What's more important, a blowjob, or her?