I've been seeing this girl who can't get over her ex boyfriend and she claims to have so much love for me but it all feels like bull****. She's hoping he does something to ruin the relationship because he has nothing. And she feels like she might destroy him by leaving him for me. How do I deal with this. Do I move on and let her know I can't wait for her or do I sit on the side and hope for things to go the right way?