Okay well I am 21 and lately I haven't been able to get it up for me and my girlfriend to have sex. I don't know what the proplem is. Is there any way that I can fix this? I love her and she is gorgeous and I just can't get it every time she touches it or rubs up against me naked. What can I do?

Does this happen only with her? (meaning when you are alone, can you still achieve an erection) If so, is there unresolved problems in your relationship, or is there things about her you find really irritating? If not, why not try something like reading each other erotic stories, maybe watching some soft porn (nothing vulgar, just enough to get you in the mood), or something different like taking a bubble bath (not shower) together, with the lights off and light a bunch of candles, then use nice smelling soap on each other. There all kinds of mood enhancement ideas you could come up with if you try. Hope this helps, good luck.

I am wondering if you get hard during the day when there is noting to really make you get hard? It is pretty normal for a guy to get hard a few times a day without any kind of outside stimulation. Do you masturbate? And if you do do you get a ridged hard on then? One las question, is this the only girl that you have had this problem with? Give us a little info and maybe we can figure out something.

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Originally Posted by letmetellu

I am wondering if you get hard during the day when there is noting to really make you get hard? It is pretty normal for a guy to get hard a few times a day without any kind of outside stimulation. Do you masturbate? and if you do do you get a ridged hard on then? One las question, is this the only girl that you have had this problem with? Give us a little info and maybe we can figure out something.

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No I usually don't get any erections during the day. Morning wood is pretty rare too. When I first started dating her I couldn't hold off the wood while I was just kissing her and now she walks around the house naked and rubbs on me naked and nothing my little man doesn't even wake up. In the past I never used to be able to achieve orgasm but I conquered that with this girl and now just recently I can't get it up at all with her. I would kiss her and rub her all over and then have to roll over and go to sleep because I couldn't get a hard on. I love everything about her I just don't know what it could be. Recently money issues have been arising, I bought too many toys and now I can't afford a house but that shouldn't put a stop loss on my . Any ideas would be appreciated. Thanks for you response!