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  • Feb 7, 2012, 11:17 AM
    redridinghood19
    What is up with this guy? Does he like me?
    I used to like this guy and he was a real jerk about it, like ignoring me at school and avoiding meeting up with me outside school, etc. I met this new guy and I'd been dating him for two months and a half when just last week the guy I used to like started the conversation below with me. Do you think:

    1. He likes me.
    2. He's jealous that I ditched him.
    3. He just wanted to clear the air.
    4. He wanted to see if I've moved on.

    Here's the conversation:

    Guy: Hey, are we all right now?
    Me (girl): Depends what you mean by "alright". And why do you care? We're not friends.
    Guy: I just want to make sure your not pissed off at me.
    Me: Nah, it's fine. That [I.e. When he was acting like a jerk 2 months ago] was ages ago.
    Guy: OK good
    Me: lol why did you suddenly bring that up now?
    Guy: Cos it was a while ago so should still be awkward.
    Me: What? [Confused because he said "should" and not "shouldn't"]
    Guy: I'm saying it seems awkward, but it shouldn't be.
    Me: We never really spoke anyway so why does it seem awkward?
    Guy: Just does. If it doesn't for you then it's cool.
    Me: It's fine seriously. It really doesn't matter anymore.

    The guy has ignored me since and I have a boyfriend. The guy in the conversation is my ex-crush.
  • Feb 7, 2012, 11:27 AM
    I wish
    If you don't have anymore feelings for him and you have a new boyfriend anyway, why does it matter?

    There's no need to read so much into it, unless you still have feelings for him?
  • Feb 7, 2012, 05:13 PM
    Jaden_91
    Read over it a couple hundred times, totally over analyse every little bit of it and then tell us what you think :)
    Lol his clearing the air!
  • Feb 9, 2012, 07:36 AM
    redridinghood19
    What is up with this guy?
    What do you make of this? Does my ex crush like me or did he just want to "clear the air"?
    I have a boyfriend but I can't stop thinking about my ex crush. I hardly ever see my boyfriend but I see my ex crush all the time at school. We have no classes together... we had one last term but he moved after he realised I have a boyfriend and claimed it's because I'm "immature"... last week, just over two months into my relationship with my boyfriend my ex crush started a conversation with me.. he seemed worried that I haven't forgiven him for being a jerk towards me and that it's got really awkward between us. Yesterday a guy friend said "oy, [ex-crush's name], [my name) says hi". My ex crush looked at me and smiled. Then later on, after school, I asked him if he's ok (on facebook) and he just said "yep" 4 minutes later. Today he just totally avoided all eye contact with me and wouldn't even stay in the same area as me. What's up with him?
  • Feb 9, 2012, 10:04 PM
    talaniman
    Nothing is up with him, its you and your crush that has you reading too much into this. You have a boyfriend so he is going to keep a respectful distance. That's what he is supposed to do right, respect your having a boyfriend.

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