Ok, so here is the back story (I will keep it short), I met a girl, we hit it off and started dating, our three dates went well, her ex contacted her, she said it would not be fair to me to keep seeing me because she still had feelings for him. I did not contact her for a month, we have texted back and forth since, but always initiated by me. I asked her out for coffee as friends, she said she couldn't because she was busy. I do not know if she is back with her ex, I get the indication that she is still single. I am thinking I should call her or text her and ask her out for coffee again, but I am not sure if I should or if it is a good idea. I really liked her, but she picked me second to her loser of an ex-bf.

If you're not her priority, then what's the point? She already knows how you feel, if she changes her mind, she will find a way to contact you.

Better to leave her alone for now and keep meeting new people.

Move on dude!
She loves her ex! You can't be with her! There are many girls waiting for you!
Meet new people and try to forget her ! She doesn't deserve you!
And as "i wish said" if she changes her mind, she will find a way to contact you :) !

This is what I always do, go after the girls I can't have... it seems they are the only ones I truly like...

As cliché as this sounds, to me, it just means that you haven't met the right one yet.

Being single and chasing girls that are out of your reach is normal. It happens, but the more people you meet, the more you'll understand what type of person really suits you the best.

And then when that person comes along, it will feel right. But until that happens, I understand that it's tough, but keep your head up and focus on meeting new people.

Someone once told me this before and it took a while for me the understand: "Every time you meet someone new, you get closer to the one you should be with".

It's hard to know who the right person is sometimes. She really felt like the right person, but I was ignoring signs about her ex (that I really should not have ignored). I know that when I meet another girl I really like, I will completely forget about her, but it is the time in between the last girl and the next girl that is always the hardest. I think about her, I have all these dream scenarios where we get together again, but in my heart of hearts I know that can never be. I will never get past the fact that she picked another over me, I would always be second best and that is something I truly do not want. I am still friends with her on Facebook and that makes it harder because I still look at her page and think about her. I really wish I did not... I know you are right, I know that all this dating crap is building to something, but it is hard to see the end line yet.

The more people you meet, the better idea you'll have of who suits you best.