After her dad died she wanted me to live with her which I did and I worked all the time and did not spend much time with the grandkids but I was so busy working, but she knew I love the kids and when I did get a spare moment I visit with them.now she told me that as far as she is concern that she has a mother that she condiser is alive but want nothing to do with me. I am sorry that she is disappoint in me because I found someone else, I think about it every day but will not give up my freedom because my daughter is againt me being happy for the first time in my adult life.