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  • Feb 15, 2007, 10:15 PM
    heather6256
    We met when I was 15 .what now?
    So I just recently moved to Ohio from Alabama.. Long story.. But when I was in Alabama I met this guy but now he is 18 and I am 15 we were together for a few months.. And really in love.. We have been separated for 8 months and still are in touch.. And as crazy about each other as before.. Do you think it' love is it worth stressing out about?
  • Feb 15, 2007, 10:20 PM
    kristynn
    It sounds like the "flame" is still there... go for it! ;)
  • Feb 15, 2007, 10:25 PM
    heather6256
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    It sounds like the "flame" is still there ... go for it! ;)

    Thank you!
  • Feb 15, 2007, 10:25 PM
    heather6256
    He's in the army in Georgia and I'm in Ohio.. What do I do?
  • Feb 16, 2007, 08:21 AM
    jkramer
    Is he at ft benning, ga? I say stick it out that's what I did while mine was at benning
  • Feb 16, 2007, 08:44 AM
    heather6256
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jkramer
    is he at ft benning, ga? i say stick it out thats what i did while mine was at benning

    Yeah that's where is and he is getting discharged in a few months but then he lives in alabma and I'm still in Ohio
  • Feb 16, 2007, 08:47 AM
    jkramer
    I say go for it. My boyfriend is in the Ohio army national guard. He is infantry . Is your guy infantry? So he is getting discharged and out of the army right? There are 3 infantry units in the national guard here in Ohio that he can transfer to if you become really serious . National guard is 2 weeks a year and one weekend a month... but anyway what part of Ohio are you from?
  • Feb 16, 2007, 08:49 AM
    heather6256
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jkramer
    i say go for it. my bf is in the ohio army national guard. he is infantry . is your guy infantry? so he is getting discharged and out of the army right? there are 3 infantry units in the national guard here in ohio that he can transfer to if yall become really serious . national guard is 2 weeks a year and one weekend a month ....... but anyways what part of ohio are you from?


    I am from Hinckley Ohio.. He is getting discharged because something is wrong with his back.. I don't know what infantry is I will find out!
  • Feb 16, 2007, 08:52 AM
    jkramer
    Oh cool so your close by :) infantry is mostly what the guys at benning are :) do you know if he has his blue cord ? Is he there for basic training and AIT or is he just stationed there?
  • Feb 16, 2007, 08:53 AM
    heather6256
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jkramer
    oh cool so your close by :) infantry is mostly what the guys at benning are :) do you know if he has his blue cord ?


    Actually I don't know I will ask him!. And then let you know okay!
  • Feb 16, 2007, 08:55 AM
    heather6256
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by heather6256
    Actually i dont know i will ask him!..And then let u know okay!!


    He said he was in fort bennin for basic training now frt. Gordon or something like that!
  • Feb 16, 2007, 08:57 AM
    jkramer
    He is infantry then... anyone that went to basic at benning is infantry... lol he will explain it to you. Do you know what his MOS (army job) is?
  • Feb 16, 2007, 08:58 AM
    heather6256
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jkramer
    he is infantry then.... anyone that went to basic at benning is infantry .... lol he will explain it to you. do you know what his MOS (army job) is?


    He always talks about fireguard or something like that!
  • Feb 16, 2007, 09:00 AM
    jkramer
    Fireguard is when all the guys are asleep and like 3 or 4 of them get up in shifts and stand guard to make sure everything is safe and stuff like that... does he tell you what he does all day ? How long have you known him for?
  • Feb 16, 2007, 09:05 AM
    heather6256
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jkramer
    fireguard is when all the guys are asleep and like 3 or 4 of them get up in shifts and stand guard to make sure everything is safe and stuff like that ..... does he tell you what he does all day ? how long have you known him for?


    I've known him for about a year in a half.. He doesn't like talking about the army he says he hates it and it just makes him wish he was at home... he said he doesn't do anything he takes off and gets in trouble!. But before when I talked to him he talked about cleanign picking trash up that kind of stuff..
  • Feb 16, 2007, 09:09 AM
    jkramer
    Oh okay... well he should be out soon hopefully if he is getting discharged :) goodluck to the 2 of you and pm me if you have any army relationship questions lol because I'm going through the same thing right now
  • Mar 30, 2007, 04:57 PM
    hanno9660
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by heather6256
    So I just recently moved to Ohio from Alabama..Long story..But when i was in alabama i met this guy but now he is 18 and i am 15 we were together for a few months..And really in love..We have been separated for 8 months and still are in touch..And as crazy about each other as before..Do you think it' love is it worth stressing out about?

    Hey--you are too young to worry about this--u have your whole lif eto live--much more love will come--this is just one of your first tastes--of love and a relationship--go on--try new things and new people--above all--be good and honest to yourself as well as the people around you! You have so much more that will happen in your life to worry now--just take a deep breath--and go on--- your smart--cute and have a lot going for you.

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