So there was this boy who liked me so much... at least that's what I began to think. He tried very hard to get my attention. About 7 months later I finally went with him. Mind you he was my first kiss, I lost my virginity, the whole 9 yards. Well when I dated him the first time he cheated and gave another girl an "hickie". But the girl was his ex that he used to love. I was dissapointed and a little hurt because I had gave him my first kiss, which might of probably meant nothing to most of you. 7 months later I took him back and we dated for about a month and I heard that his ex came over his house, so I broke up with him. He was very upset and told his guy friends what happened. Later on that night he had sex with her. And then the next day he came clean about it. Its been three months and he's been trying to make things right. He cut off his ex, but I'm not use to relationships and there is a lot of things I can improve on. But I don't give in to what he says most of the time. But I love him. So does he deserve a 3rd chance?

I think he deserves one more chance. And if he screws it up this next chance its done. But also tell him its his last chance. Hope this helps

He never deserved the second one. Just leave the cheater be, your love for him will die with time, you need someone who is going to respect you and your relationship together, not someone who took your virginity and sleeps around with ex-girlfriends.

He has cheated TWICE, so NO!! Love has made you blind!

Well, my boyfriend cheated on me a few times except I found out about them all at the same time. I should have broke it off but my daughter was so attached to him, which is no excuse. However, its like trusting someone to hold you with one arm over a ten story building and they drop you. You happen to survive, but your paralized and will always suffer the side effects. When it happened to me and I stayed I got so insecure and I'm currently on antidepressant s to stop thinking of it. So you decide what's best for you. No one can make that choice because you know the relationship best. Good luck

Thanks for all the comments!