Hi my daughters are 45 and 43 the younger one has not talked to me for 3 years and the older one never calls. I'm in the same boat, after years of baby sitting now I'm not wanted any more sad

Why? What happened? I don't think two adult children stop talking to their mother at the same time, without explanation.

Yes, tell us more about what happened? Illness, divorce, moved, remarried?

I see your point... they like you when you were able to give... but when they don't need you... they stay away. That is dirty and totally irresponsible as an adult. The have obligations as a human and a child.