It showed up on some so called "free public record site" death notice etc... what is the story.. all it showed is deceased age location... how do I find this out? It's sad.. I need to know.. thanks so much..

Contact the friend's family... that's all you can do.

Some sites are better than others. Some show place of death. There is a site which "stores" death notices.

What do you need to know and why is it important to you?

Met when I was was 14.. the first.. etc... I broke off the engangement after 4 years.. he wanted me to choose.. my mother or him.. long story.. he was truly madly deeply forever.. we lost touch in 1992.. another long story.. have tried to find him over the years.. was on some site.. said he died in November 2011 in charlotte n.c... needless to say... that is why it's important.. .

Typing in caps is the same as shouting at me. There's no need. {Mod Note caps were edited out}

I don't understand why you refuse to pay for the info if it's so important to you.

At any rate try the Charlotte, NC newspapers, both obituaries and death notices.

It will cost you to obtain a copy of the Death Certificate - if it can be released to you.

Twenty years apart makes it difficult to get information.

I actually do this type of work. Sometimes you have to use combined sources. What type of info are you seeking? Next of kin, cause of death, something else?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I actually do this type of work. Sometimes you have to use combined sources. What type of info are you seeking? Next of kin, cause of death, something else?

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Why is this incorrect or not helpful? You didn't read that I am willing to help but would have to access mutiple sources? First I need to know why you want the info. I am not disclosing info which could cause a problem for the next of kin.