I am 29, and I had the intercourse first time with my b/f today. I had been trying to do so for long time but was not able to make it work cause of the pains or may my small size.. Today after a try my b/f was able to insert it inside (half way though) for some time and we tried the intercourse. It lasted only for couple of minutes but after that I started bleeding. Bleeding is not much but still I'm little bit worried about what could be wrong. Are these pains normal ? Is the bleeding normal ?

We both are so much in love with each others since last more than three years now.. And are trying to have the satisfying sexual life. But because of my size, I could never satisfy him. I feel very guilty about the same.. He is very loving, caring, gentle n Patient.. I really want to satisfy him to the fullest.. Please help me !

Bleeding is due to your hymen rupturing...

Yes it pains a bit the first, but I feel if it is paining every time then you might not be excited enough and hence not very well lubricated.

Also seems life you get tensed up during the act, that too can affect...

If you were virgin yes you will bleed the first time you have sex, you need to be relaxed, more pore play and use some lubricant you will enjoy it, good luck.

John

If babies can pass through your vagina your boyfriend can enter you - you are more elastic than you think.

Relax, take your time, lubricate.

I trust you are taking every precaution and are prepared to be a mother if the birth control fails - ?