I'm expeirecing itchy uncomfortable inner thigh close to.vagina it is.driving me mad what could it.be. If herpes. How did.I get.it as I haven't had sex in a while what other ways cam you get them

You can get them from contact with someone else who has them.
My friend once caught them from her boyfriend who shared a glass of water with someone who had it at work.
You could get some soothing cream like sudacreme or germoline to help the itching but deffinately go see your GP.