Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Teens (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=327)
-   -   Don't know what to do (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=630659)

  • Jan 26, 2012, 10:21 AM
    alanad123
    Don't know what to do
    See the thing is, I really like this guy and I'm sure he still likes me, he's 18 and I'm 17 and I don't know how to tell my mum or dad, I've had other boyfriends but my parents have never known, now I'm mature enough to tell them but I just don't know how to, we have been seeing each other but stopped because I could get to spend time with him because this problem with my mum and dad, pease help, I love him and I really don't want to loose him again?
  • Jan 26, 2012, 11:26 AM
    talaniman
    Just start with your mom, and ask her if she wants to meet this fellow you really like. She can deal with your dad!
  • Jan 26, 2012, 12:56 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Ok you are 17, do you live in a area or culture where dating is not allowed ?

    You just tell mom that you have a boyfriend.
  • Jan 26, 2012, 04:22 PM
    alanad123
    I try but they're really strict and sometimes I wish they would just leave me alone and actually let me have a life!
  • Jan 26, 2012, 04:46 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    You can have a life, but you have to be part of it, hiding and lying about things is not.
  • Jan 30, 2012, 10:09 AM
    alanad123
    I'm really finding it so hard to build up the courage to tell my mum about my boyfriend and its really stressing me, if I don't tell them I won't be able to see him much, I'm just worried about they're reaction and all the questions they will ask me, I really need help here, can yous give me answers with Helpful detail?
  • Jan 30, 2012, 10:51 AM
    talaniman
    You are making this harder than it needs to be.
  • Jan 30, 2012, 03:27 PM
    alanad123
    OK, now that I've told them I feel really strange, there's this weird feeling inside me like I'm not dads little girl anymore, I don't like this feeling, what is this feeling? Can anyone help?
  • Jan 30, 2012, 05:06 PM
    talaniman
    Yes something has changed, as you are about to see whether an adult independent female can stands up for the decisions she makes against some strong opposition. Its called growing up. It's a change for both you, and your parents. How will everyone adjust? That will come, be prepared.

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 04:46 PM.