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  • Jan 26, 2012, 07:48 AM
    karen202
    Should I try it?
    Hi, I met this guy awhile ago who I liked a lot I was with someone at that point. Anyway I wanted to try it out with him but I hear he dates a lot of porn stars, I have heard its due to being divorced you know how that goes.. Anyway I want to try it out I don't care about his past. Should I give him a chance? I know sometmes when you meet the right guy or girl things fall into place.
  • Jan 26, 2012, 10:09 AM
    Schoolmarm97
    Nope, I don't know "how that goes". LOL I know a lot of divorced men, and none of them dated a number of porn stars. You may not care about his past right now, but you very well might in the long term. His dating porn stars says a lot about him. It also should give you some thoughts about the possibility of STDs. "Trying it out" can lead down a very long and painful path. Life is messy enough--especially when one of you is already divorced--so why make it more complicated?

    I think if you were sure this was a good idea, you wouldn't be here asking for advice. Think it through. You know the right answer.
  • Jan 26, 2012, 10:09 AM
    talaniman
    Still with someone? If so tell him to get lost so you can try the guy that likes porn stars. I am sure he can fit you in, and maybe it works, maybe it doesn't.

    I am sure all you care about is trying it at this time. Whether you care about his past or anything else you find out remains to be seen but its nuts to think he will fall for you and forget the rest just by you trying. He may just see you as just another piece like the rest of 'em.

    Take your chances I guess.
  • Feb 12, 2012, 03:09 PM
    lucky27bar
    The decision is still up to you. But as per my advice, it's better for you to look for your welfare, first before anything else. You know, love can wait. What's important right now is to finish your studies, if you're still studying and be a bachelor someday.
  • Feb 12, 2012, 03:17 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    How old are you, it sounds like a preteen talking. First divorce men are not "like" something. Most divorce men are Most are lonely and just date the girls they know.

    Most men don't even know "porn" stars, there are not many.

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