Ok, my marriage is rocky right now and I don't have the same connection I use to with him. It's because the damage he has done to me. Well he hurt me a lot, and I just had it this time. I want to leave but then I don't, because I didn't want to see him hurt, and it took him 4 years to finally treat me right, but I just had it. I'm always confused, frustrated and just mad and hurt all the time. I need help.

Any chance of seeking counseling for both of you or for yourself in order to help you deal with whatever the circumstances have been?

Are the specifics of what has occurred enough for you to end your marriage? Does he want to make things better? Is he willing to work with you? Have you spoken to him at all about how you are feeling?

What would be enough to cause one person to end a marriage, may not be for someone else. It comes down to whether you see yourself able to forgive, work through, and rebuild to hopefully something better than before. It doesn't happen overnight, it takes effort, some heartache, frustration, forgiveness, communication, acceptance, resolve, and reconciliation.

Is this an everyday thing, or just a bad time because of a situation? How long have you been married, and how has he been hurting you? What's he doing? What are YOU doing? Why haven't you talked?

One thing sure you love him. He need to know if he do not care he will find out when you leave. You will find other person better than him. Husband should be best friend not fighter.