My boyfriend of two years is constantly flirting and talking to all the girls at work and even knows their personal life they even have nicknames for him and those same girls will turn around and barely talk to me. Trust me I'm a strong woman, and I have been but this has broken me down and I know I need help. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm constantly mean at him because I've told him how I've felt, and all he says is he doesn't flirt with them? I'm 20 yrs old, and stuck ):

And he's a good boyfriend this is the only flaw. I've tried to overlook it, but its too much!

As you recognize his one flaw that has you stuck, acknowledge your own ONE FLAW, maybe insecurity, or jealousy, or just inexperience has you feeling this way, or more than likely, the fact that they are not overly accepting of you, so you think, but they know him better, being his co workers.

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I'm constantly mean at him because I've told him how I've felt, and all he says is he doesn't flirt with them?

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Stop being mean and letting your feelings make you a grump. Think before you act or speak, as if you take his word for it, this should not be a big enough deal to be stuck on. The way you handle it is what's important, so control your feelings, and stay in control of yourself, and you can control your own actions.

Wonder what makes you feel that way?

Just acknowledge his flaw and talk with him about it and leave it there. Do not keep bringing it up. If he does not change then move on. Remember love is patient.

Make him jealous