My wife does not like to orgasm... I've made her squirt twice in the 4 years we have been together but both of those times she was drunk... any other time she pushes me away right when she is about to climax... this is during oral sex... I've never made her orgasm during regular sex

My wife does not like the feeling of a orgasm during oral sex she pushes me away right when she is about to climax... I've never made her *** during regular sex... how am I to know if I'm really pleasing her if she won't allow herself to climax

Maybe she prefers to climax without any additional pressure from you. Perhaps she's too sensitive during her climax to "endure" any additional stimulation.

Why don't you ask her? That's the only way to know.

Not all women "squirt." Not "squirting" doesn't mean she isn't having an orgasm.

How about asking her? Presumably she knows.

I second what JudyKayTee stated... "I'm coming " doesn't mean damn the torpedoes full speed ahead.

People believe what they see in porn movies... when they shouldn't... that's ALWAYS Peeing... and should be more appropriately called water-play or golden showers. Particularly since she was drunk at the time... bladder control for guys is hard enough when they are drunk... and its far worse for women.

Agreed, and many women never orgasm during actual intercourse. And of course the issue is listening to what she wants, if she is happy with things a certain way, let her be OK with it.