Am now 24 but I can't feel any pleasure when having sex, I've tried having safe sex with different girls but it seems like the problem can't go.I saw my doctor who advised me to take testocaps but still nothing has changed.Please help me, what can I do to regain mky pleasure. Thanks

Perhaps its simply a matter of not having sex with someone you actually care about.

I'm being serious, as you mature its less about having sex with just anyone and more about WHO you choose to have it with... some guys get there a lot sooner than others...

You might have to be a bit more specific about what you mean by "not having any pleasure". That can mean a mean a lot of different things, not all of them indicting a common issue.

I can think of a lot of women I just wouldn't have any pleasure having sex with... while quite a few I could say the opposite... and that's just among women I don't know personally.

If you understand what I'm trying to say.

At 18, all it takes is a female to say I'm ready for a guiy to say lets go...

At 28 or more... you first think about who is the woman, do I like her, and, is she worth spending the time with.

Eventually, she'll have to look like Christy Brinkley unless you know her better to take the time.

Are you just having problems reaching orgasm? Or are you having issues with enjoying ANY aspect of sex?

Were you molested as a child, or raped as a child or young adult? Or sexually assaulted in any way?

First let me thank you all for the quick response that you gave to my problem, by not having any pleasure I meant that I don't feel anything.take an example of a mosquito bite, at least you can sense something.I've never been molested and I can reach orgasm. Just asking can surgery solve this problem.

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Originally Posted by kirozvillage

First let me thank you all for the quick response that you gave to my problem, by not having any pleasure i meant that i dont feel anything.take an example of a mosquito bite, atleast u can sense something.i've never been molested and i can reach orgasm. just asking can surgery solve this problem.

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What kind of surgery has been suggested?

Surgery can solve various problems, you have not told us what the problem is. Just what symptoms you are having. Did you have nerve damage, or some spine injury or what?