I am unsure what to do here. I work with a person that is very high energy and loud pretty much all of the time. And that's on a good day. On a bad day, this person is high energy to the point of agitation and loud to the point of yelling while people are clearly working, interrupting to ask unnecessary questions, and sometimes, confronts/upsets other co-workers with trivial issues that he deems 'critical' just to get a reaction out of them, and when he does, tells them they are overreacting and he wasn't being serious.
I understand it's really this person's issue, not mine, and for 2 years I have been pretty good at distancing myself personally from him, but yesterday he crossed a line with me and I almost lost my cool. I hate feeling that angry and helpless. He tried to get me to say and agree to bad thing s he was saying about another co-worker, and when I wouldn't, he got louder and loudeer until I said that we can just drop it, that we agree to disagree and let's move on. At that point, he started slamming equipment in our work area and glaring at me, the intention, I know, was to intimidate. So, I left the area and went into the room next door to work (I still had responsibilities of my own to complete) and at that point, he started slamming stuff into the wall between the two rooms loud enough to let me know he knew I was there, and later when he needed something he kicked my door open and snapped a demand, which I pretended not to hear, and then he slammed my door only to return with another co-worker a few minutes later and act as if nothing happened.
I really don't know what to do about this - I am a female in a male-dominated workplace and I feel like saying something makes me look weak or helpless, and I am not that at all, but I honestly feel threatened and even bullied... over something so stupid... any ideas what is really going on and what I should do? Thanks!
