Hi all, I'm new here, just want to ask questions..

I'm 27 years old, very discreet gay, whose having relationship with a married straight guy. He is cute, and so sweet and nice. He does have a pretty wife, and 2 children. Sometimes we've kissed, but we don't go beyond that so far. I do love him in a way that sometimes I think I will do everything for him.

He told me that he wish I will always by his side if he needs me. He take care of me in a little way and he said that he do love me also. I am so happy with our relationship and we are open about our problem, and he always made me smile. I don't know if I am doing is right, or should I stop because sometimes some of my friends told me that he just want to get things from me. We are working together in a company, and almost everyday we see each other.

Now, I'm confused please give me advise thanks

STOP RIGHT NOW... there are several reasons for you to STOP. He is married, he has 2 kids, he is straight (I doubt that), he is your colleague,, think about it, if his wife gets to know oof this, you will be hurting not just her, but 2 kids as well. What about them? There are lots of fish in the sea,, but this fish is already in the net. Don't get trapped.

@Silver Lining.. Thanks I'll try it even if it hurts me a lot.. Wish me luck...

All the best,, m sure Someone Somewhere is Made For You, you just have to wait...

Why be used as the side love, or the office fling of a married guy when you can have a healthy fulfilling happy open, and above board with a discreet gay guy?

Why waste time on love with a married guy? That just puts you in the same category as the mistresses and play things that get used when they have time for them.

Why put yourself into that kind of box with a guy on the down low?

For the sake of the children and his wife, please, move on. You can still be friends, yes. But don't ruin their family. They are plenty of more people out there who will not be afraid to show you to the world and who will give you what you deserve. Come on, you can do it.

Xoxo.
PunkkBarbiee.

First of course he is not straight, if he is having sex with you, then he is at least bi, or he gay and living a married life.

He is married and you have no right to see or date him, What you do, is leave him alone, if he wants to leave his wife for you, that is his choice

Thanks for the advice guys but when I'm about to do it.. I can't find any strength for now.. But I'm really trying it indeed.. I know that all of these would come to an end but for now I just want to take it slow.. little by little.. I can't do it all of sudden.. Right now just enjoying what we have if it is still right to do and sooner do the process off moving on.. :-(

You can't take things slow and hope to move on,, if u want to move on, then MOVE ON,, taking things slow? When u have to do something right, you don't delay it, you just DO IT. Don't wait for the right moment, end it now.