A while ago his friend told him I cheated on him, but I didn't. We started back talking again. He had a girlfriend. Me and him are still talking cause he wants to be with me. But before we get back together, we were working on our problems to make sure that's what we want to do. And when we decide we can get back together.

As soon as things started getting good, some girl that stays by me, told him he's not the only boy I am having sex with. I am having other boys in my house, which is a lie. Now he's hurt, and don't know what to believe, because this the second time, and he said people are telling him stuff about me. I really love this boy. Hes everything to me, my king, my other half, we been together for 2 years now, and I know how boys get when it comes to the girls they love dealing with another man. So I don't know what to do!

You may love him a whole lot, but you don't need someone who believes the lies of others so easily over your own word. That's a crock of crap to justify why he is with some other chick and talks to you behind her back.

Oh please you can do better than that can't you?

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So I don't know what to do!

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You stop talking to a guy that thinks you are a lying cheater, and give yourself time to heal from this miserable, unhealthy, one way love and torture, and get a better man who believes in you and won't play on your love for him. Who puts YOU above the words of others.

I was going to say something but then I read the answer by Tal and I have to agree completely.

Move on.

Hey. I am in the boys side they keep on telling me these things about my girlfriend.. I don't know what or who to believe.. I am really fed up with this situation.. I disagree with the other comments as his friends and everything were there long before you came in to his life.. it is hard rally hard.. believe me he wants to trust and believe you but if you don't make him understand that you are 100% loyal and there for him he will still have his concerns.. at least my girlfriend isn't trying to show me that she is loyal so maybe I am answering wrongly but the only way to convince him is to really try and show him that you are loyal and always were.. at least that is way I would want

The problem is that if she has to prove she's loyal, the relationship is pretty much over. Nobody should have to prove anything and the fact that he has doubts means he will always doubt her. There is nothing she can really do to prove anything and she shouldn't have to.

Same situation but we are already over I am just trying to get her back... She thinks I cheated because of a rumor and she has been cheated on 7 times out of her 9 relationships... I can't really blame her... But I didn't... )": I don't know what to do...