I've been talking to this guy for a LONG time & all he says is we have to hang out first. Uhm I ask him to hang out all the time. All he says is I told his ex I would chill with her then gets mad when I get jealous, uhm hello I'm a girl who has feelings for you I'm going to get jealous.

Another issues is just talking to each other IN PERSON we go to the same school and he barley talks to me and when h dose he's usually saying " SHUT UP " or " no one cares what you think " or " was I talking to you? Obviously not. "

And he's hugged me twice, but hugs her all the time. And lets her play with his hand and other stuff.

What is he trying to tell me with all this?

Don't waste your time on him. He is playing games.

Okaay, I like this guy and where always texting and crap. But he's always like you hate me. But I don't and he's like well prove it. What do I do like how do I prove it, oh and he told me he likes me to?

When guys are saying things like "oh you hate me" and "oh im so ugly" and stuff like that, their acting like a wound bird, or a kid that wants attention and wants to be complimented. When a guy does the whole you hate me thing he just wants to hear that you really like him, because that's the only thing keeping him from floating into the air. Guys feel secure about themselves when they know girls like them... its just a manly thing :D just tell him how you really feel using deets like what you like about him and see how that works, but don't play the *****y role and be like oh yeah I do hate you if that's what you think because lemmie tell you... GUYS HATE THAT!!

But I tried that and he said he wants me to phisacily prove it , I don't know how?

You physically prove it by baking him a batch of chocolate chip cookies and polishing up your spelling.

Yes, autistic people are very smart. One of my sons is autistic and my husband is also. His father was too. Autistic people do not have trouble with spelling.

So you're not autistic.

Obviously he may want something physcial, maybe sex, how old is this boy? You never prove anything, you don't prove it by physical things, Things don't go physical first at all at 13, and after that, it does not go physical unless both of you are at a point were you know you like each other.

You like each other and prove it by talking and get to know each other. The boy sounds like a jerk

Then you have no interest in social life, have sensory impairments, no empathy, are generally clumsy and wooden, have to have set routines and no changes in your life. Okay. I do wish you well.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Then you have no interest in social life, have sensory impairments, no empathy, are generally clumsy and wooden, have to have set routines and no changes in your life. Okay. I do wish you well.

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Totally