I am 18 and have a regular sexual partner. It's great but after 3 months with him I am finding I can't achieve as many orgasms (if at all). I really enjoy it but I have a hard time climaxing. I can usually only get off if I have clitoral stimulation. It kind of feels like I can't get my mind to quiet so I can focus on what I am doing?

Maybe I should spice up our sex life? Any tricks to get my mind off the daily stresses? Ways to hit my g-spot with his penis instead of the toy?

Thanks!

Most women have trouble or never actually orgasm in actual sex, unless perhaps they were already doing so a few times perhaps before they start.

But yes spice things up, anyway you both want, dress up, role playing, penis rings that vibrate, you name it, there is something to do.

Yupp I agree girl when yuour having sex just enjoy your sex and don't worry about work or drama, just focus on that good feeling your man's trying to give you. Enjoy eachother's passion and toys, but toys I feel are for necessities if you just really can't ***. Good luck

~Ivette~

I found I could never orgasam with sex but it didn't worry me as I knew the majority of women needed clitoral stimulation to have one. My current boyfriend is my first sexual partner and it took months before I came with clitoral stimulation(by itslef) so I wasn't too fussed that it wasn't happening with sex. I loved the sex but could never orgasam until a few weeks agos, when he was able to touch my clitorus at the same time. Perhaps you just need to find a position that works best but most of all no matter how good it is I don't think you'l achieve an orgasam if you're overthinking it, just relax and go with the flow,sex is more than just orgasams

Some guys like the idea of using toys on girls, so if you can only achieve it that way maybe try and bringing it into your sexlife?
Good luck :)