My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in quite sometime and it's a bit frustrating. Its going to be a year soon and I'm really excited for it, but lately he's been just there we argue once in a while but nothing to get all crazy about, he has the tendency of playing around by biting me and getting me all worked up then I start playing around with him and he pushes me off and tells me to stop playing around. Obious I get mad and push him off but he keeps his game. I understand that when he comes back from work and he's tired and just wants to rest and I let him but he wants me there all the time... I tell him that I miss his ways of being but never does anything about it. I've tried playing around with him texting him dirty, I tried always to be ready,cute and sexy, I even started helping him with the engine of cars see if that would made a difference but things stay the same...

Is he healthy, stressed over work or something else? It's been a year since you've had sex and you're still with him?

You want or don't want the biting part of sex?

Dirty texts, being ready, cute and sexy, working on cars with him apparently aren't working.

How about sitting him down and asking him? You're in a relationship. Presumably you talk about other areas of that relationship. Talk about this, too.

Its been about a month and a half since we have had sex, not a whole year that would have been crazy... I do like when he's biting and playing around I just don't like him pushing me off. Thanks :)

Sorry but I read this to mean you hadn't had sex in a year - "My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in quite sometime and its a bit frustrating. Its going to be a year soon and I'm really excited for it,"