My daughters biological father was not in her life (by choice) until she was 3 years old. He took me to court to get joint custody and they gave him every other weekend and he was supposed to start paying child support. He has not paid any child support and is over $11,000 behind. He started getting visitation the first weekend in September 2011 he got her the first, third and fifth weekends then did not contact us until Dec 28, 2011 for Christmas visitation. Can I file abandonment charges on him and get his rights taken away?