We have been together for almost 5 years. My fiancé and I got engaged in May. I found out from a friend of mine that he had been going to strip clubs for the previous two summers three times a week without telling me. He would always say he was working late. He would also go out to the bars and flirt with girls. He swears he never cheated on me but it makes me wonder. What do you guys think? I don't want to marry a cheater but I don't want to accuse him if he didn't cheat.

Don't ask if he cheated, ask him why he goes. 3 times a week, seems a lot to me. Was he with the guys? Why just in the summers? How old is he?

He was with guys but he instigated it. I think it was mostly in the summer. He is now 29.

I think most young guys go through that and he is at the hoop, and holler age. Guy fun, doesn't matter if it's a booty bar, or a sports bar.