Disciplining neighbor's kids
We have two kids 8 and 10; our next door neighbors have 3 kids: 7, 9, 11. In the past, they have played a lot together with minimal altercations. Recently, however, we noticed some bullying behavior from the neighbor's kids to my youngest child. One evening, my husband caught them in the act of verbally bullying our son. He did not raise his voice or yell but quized them about what was going on and told them that their actions were "not cool." A couple of days later, their kids told our kids that they were not allowed to play with them anymore because my husband "got them in trouble."
This ban has been going on for over 2 months now. I think that the parents should have at least talked to us about this first before implementing this ban. Perhaps we were wrong for not involving them in the first place but it wasn't like my husband "went off on the kids," he basically just stopped the mean play. Now there's this cold war going on between us.
What should we do? Should we try to initiate a conversation--I feel like that's what THEY want US to do or should we just go on living the cold war.