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Baby Mamma Drama

I am stressed because me and my boyfriend of 1 year now has just broken up. He has a baby mamma that i just dont get along with and he has cheated on me with her more than once but he always say that its nothing and that he love me he acts as though he hate her with all his might but everytime tears form in my eyes its over somthing he done did with her. she one of them stupid baby mammas who be trying to buy him stuff like cell phones and clothes and stuff like that to win his love back and he takes it and i get mad because i feel if he still conversate with her and take her gifts she feel like they still got a chance together and as me being his gurl and all regardless of who she is i dont like him dealing with another gurl but see what im asking yall to do is tell me if im over reacting cause i dont have children so i dont know how to handle this situation.

What's a "baby momma"?

LMAO NK.

Personally I don't think you are overreacting. You yourself said that he has had an affair with her while you two were together.

You are now broken up correct? It is probably in your best interest to keep it that way and find a man who does not have that kind of baggage hanging over his head. It will make you a happier healthier person in the long run.

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Originally Posted by NeedKarma

What's a "baby momma"?

I thought the same thing and I can't help but wonder...

First Y'all asking about Baby Mamma it means her boyfriend has a baby with a different woman. That woman is the babies mother who creates a lot of problems hense the term baby mama drama. Look me up on the slang!!

Now Sexy, Let's get to Chuffing.

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Originally Posted by sexy4lyfe

I am stressed because me and my boyfriend of 1 year now has just broken up. He has a baby mamma that i just dont get along with and he has cheated on me with her more than once

Great. Now you know for sure he doesn't give a rat's behind about you. Seriously, you've got your answer right there. He's a cheater. That means she doesn't love you. That means he doesn't respect you. Case closed. The relationship is over when that happens. It's done.

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Originally Posted by sexy4lyfe

but he always say that its nothing

Well, what do you say? When he's having sex with her, not thinking about you, and only thinking about her, do you think that's nothing. He treats you like nothing that's for sure. The other girl needs him because she has a child with him. Why do you need him? He brings nothing to your life. In fact he not only brings nothing to you he actually takes from you by allowing all this to happen. Look at what's it's done to you so far.

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Originally Posted by sexy4lyfe

and that he love me he acts as though he hate her with all his might but everytime tears form in my eyes its over somthing he done did with her.

Sounds like he doesn't care. But you already knew that. I'm just confirming it for you.

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Originally Posted by sexy4lyfe

she one of them stupid baby mammas who be trying to buy him stuff like cell phones and clothes and stuff like that to win his love back and he takes it

So let me get this straight. She is a single mother with a baby he fathered. Instead of focusing and spending money on the baby she ignores that child and focuses and spends money on the father who ignores the same baby. The father who ignores the baby and doesn't spend money on the child gets gifts from the mother.

Just out of curiosity am I paying for this child to be ignored by these two deadbeat idiots? I bet I am. And yet a certain group of people still claim that I don't deserve a tax break.

Would you want your child to wind up like this kid? Because if you stay with your boyfriend that is exactly what is going to happen.

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Originally Posted by sexy4lyfe

and i get mad because i feel if he still conversate with her and take her gifts she feel like they still got a chance together and as me being his gurl and all regardless of who she is i dont like him dealing with another gurl but see what im asking yall to do is tell me if im over reacting cause i dont have children so i dont know how to handle this situation.

No your not overreacting. If anything your underreacting. You should be thanking God that your not involved with her OR HIM. He loves this drama. He floats between his two girls. He doesn't care about either one of you or his child so I think you would be much better off without all this in your life.