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  • Jan 4, 2012, 12:38 AM
    male3235
    What is the feeling of a girl after a first kiss?
    I am with my girlfriend since eight months. Actually, we are engaged. We went out together to the seashore, and when we were in romantic moments, I made my move and kissed her. I saw that she wants more than I went deep. But after two days, she mailed me saying that she didn't like what happened between us and she hate remembering it.she said that she never imagine that I could do that for her. She said as well that she was trusting me n she didn't want me to kiss her but she couldn't escape.

    So, my question is: does she really regret to had that kiss or does she simply want to say something else?
  • Jan 4, 2012, 12:00 PM
    pandead
    You are engaged and she hated kissing you? Boy, you're in trouble.
    Ask her what she didn't like about it.
  • Jan 4, 2012, 07:05 PM
    talaniman
    You better ask her what wrong with kissing the guy you are engaged to. Then forget her. That's a bad sign when a female hates kissing you and makes such a big deal of it.

    This has to be a blessing in disguise.
  • Jan 6, 2012, 09:39 AM
    politicalincrct
    What are your ages and previous relationship experiences? This sounds almost virginal. Not trying to be smart here or anything. If there is a deep spiritual commitment to God in her it will explain a whole lot. People have a tendency to forget that a commitment to God overrides all other commitments. If she is deeply spiritual she may have felt that you were trying to cross a physical line that cannot be crossed before marriage in her eyes.
    If there is something other than that - you may want to ask her if she is wearing that engagement for the wrong reasons. I do not know what your relationship is like - but if you are "spoiling" her with gifts - back off for a while and see how she acts.

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