I expressed my feelings to a girl at work and she said she likes me too, I feel very strongly about her. She has a boyfriend but has admitted not being happy with him anymore. I feel like we should be together but she says it's just lust I have for her, I love this gal yes I want to kiss her and more but I would also be happy just being with her. I care about her and really want to be her boyfriend. She is confused. What should I do? I've been giving her some space because I like her. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Please help.