My son is draving me crazy.. His attetude n behavior with the fam is out off control.. I feel like he wants to be in charged

How to handle my 13yr old behavior

Set the rules and make him follow them. Sorry you will have to get more details, is he doing drugs, stealing, getting into fights, sneaking out of the house and having sex ?

Keep in mind, everything he has, is a gift from you. His bed, his clothes, his pillow, his bedroom furniture, TV, its all provided entirely by you. Since that's the case, and since he takes those things for granted as all kids do; Give him warning, how you expect him to treat the family with respect, or there's a new sheriff in town and there will be severe consequences from now on. Then, if you have too; start taking things away for a set period. Make everything perfectly clear, and ALWAYS stick to your plan.

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