I have a slight problem, my boyfriends in love with me, but I don't think I love him, and I've kind of already told him I do love him. I know not cool at all, but I didn't know what else to say.

We were at the movies watching a romantic film, and I didn't think. Anyway I do really like him, but not love. I don't know if the best thing to do is split up with him, or just let it be, and see if my feeling happen naturally. Also I don't think the chemistry is there for me either, well I don't really find him attractive but he has a great personality. I was sick of going with the hot guys that treated you like crap, and not that I've got what I'm looking for. My head is so baffled. HELLLLPPP!

If you don't love him you should end the relationship.

Quote:

---

I know not cool at all, but I didn't know what else to say.

---

What happen with just tell the truth? Or just being honest? Or saying NOTHING? All of these choices is better than lying.

OK I will say love does not happen out of the blue and it takes time,and if you do not love him do not make him feel like you do at the things might turn out to be complicated and you might even end up with an enemy instead of a friend