We hang out together, we practically know everything about each other. He always tells me how perfect I am and how lucky he is to have me as his friend. I can be myself around him. I feel like Iv'e known him forever, and whenever I think about him I smile. My best friends all tell me he's weird, and that I should't hang out with him, because I'm popular and he isn't at all. But, that kind of makes me want to be around him more. I'm also friends with all of his friends. I think about him a lot. I think I really need some advice though! Thanks!

He sounds insecure, and needs words of assurance from you. How old are you? Are you his first girl friend?

I'm 16. Were not together. I'm confused about what to do in this situation.

Be straight with him.

"I like you and I want to date you."

Boom. Done.

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Originally Posted by meggie455

I'm 16. Were not together. I'm confused about what to do in this situation.

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He is probably as confused as you are. Talk together, lead the conversation. It sounds like you both are kind of shy, and you would love him to take the lead.

That's why you have to talk and reasure him you are there and will follow his lead (to a reasonable point of course :D). Nothing weird but reasonable.