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  • Dec 28, 2011, 03:59 AM
    Sparkles99
    My boyfriend talks to my best friend more than me. Should I be worried?
    When he is on the phone with her and I call he doesn't even click to the other line and tell me anything. And they text each other he even sent her a picture with his shirt off and he lets her rub on him

    Okay this is what happened she is always all over him and flirting with him and just straight up ignoring me. He tells her secrets that I don't even know. He tells me that she has a big butt and he is ALWAYS on the phone with her and texting her. And he sent her multiple pictures with his shirt off.

    And my best friend has a boyfriend and when she sees me give him a hug because he's always like gimme a hug, and I'm like whatever she always looks at him and me funny and then she goes and rubs her body on her boyfriend like I care and then every time they see each other in the hall way they all ways give each other long hugs and she always rubs her body on my boyfriend too. And he even let her feel on him but if I'm around him if I even try to touch him he always jumps away and runs and on the outside I don't show any emotion but on the inside I'm crying. And when he goes to his dads house I understand he can't call I don't know why but he always finds a way too call her and if he doesn't talk to her for like 3 days at his dads house as soon as he gets home he's always talking to her 24/7 and I just don't know what to do!

    PLEASE HELP!
  • Dec 28, 2011, 05:15 AM
    Kahani Punjab
    Sparkles 99,

    Firstly, welcome to this great site!

    So, are you sure he is your boyfriend, and not hers? Your friend (that girl) is a sort of flirt, I presume from her behaviour, but your 'man' I mean the boyfriend is also not having that sort of commitment or strength, at least he does not display it. So, you need to talk to your boyfriend, about it. Tell him to be sincere. If he really loves you, he will surely follow you.
  • Dec 28, 2011, 09:44 PM
    Hahahaha13
    Tell her boyfriend wats happening. If she gets all upset just tell to back the **** off your man and tell your boyfriend that if he loves her more than you then it was not meant to be. So also talk to him about it. If that don't work. Get a better guy who will treat you like his girlfriend
  • Dec 30, 2011, 10:46 AM
    Sparkles99
    But every tim I try to say something to him he always gets mad and tells me I don't trust him . And if I say sum to her she says I don't like him I have a boyfriend and then I'm like just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you don't like
  • Jan 4, 2012, 03:09 PM
    FayeLouise5
    Well to me it sounds as if she's a bit jelous that you have a boyfriend so she hides it by flirting with him and he's maybe trying to lead her on a bit so that he can find out more about you but on the other had it could also be that she wants her and he only talks to her to try and get close to you, but honestly I don't know hope this helps a bit good luck xx

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