Hey can somebody please help me? I was hanging out with a bunch of cousins, and me and one guy were talking a bit - bantering in fun... and I jabbed him in the ribs gently and he jabbed me back... no problem. Then I turned to go, and he pinched my butt - on purpose. And that made me really uncomfortable, and I didn't want to get close to him... no I feel terrible and can't stop thinking about that. It also made me remember times when he would pull my sweater zipper or ties and it didn't seem to matter if he brushed my breasts or not. He makes me uncomfortable and I don't want to get near him now cause I'm scared he'll pinch my butt or hurt me. Is that bordering on abuse? I feel horrible about it now, and I'm scared to talk about it. What do I do? Please help me... I feel aweful.