For almost a couple months I have been with this girl and we both care very much about each other at least I hope she does, but she has a baby with another guy who she says they broke up and he is in jail. I don't know if I'm over dramatic or right because they will talk once minimum or two three times a day for hours. Also allher old friends and the grandpa of the baby she keeps our relationship a secret. I am at a complete loss of do any advice would be great.:confused:

Chances are, because it is early in your relationship, she doesn't want to get her hopes up as she still wants what is best for her child hence why she keeps in touch with her ex and why she hasn't told many people about the two of you. It does not necessarily mean that she doesn't care about you, she may just been thinking of the future. She also probably does not know where she stands with you at the moment and doesn't want to keep all her eggs in one basket which may be why she is not sure of what she wants either. The two of you will need to have a talk about your relationship and where it stands before you proceed any further.
Good Luck.

Secret huh? Obviously she doesn't want word to get back to her ex in jail. You are her secret lover until dude gets back in the picture. If all you want is to be a secret lover, fine. If you have feelings for her, I would suggest you open your eyes before you get in too deep and invest too much emotionally with her. Come on with baby daddy in jail mama still needs some lovin' so be careful, but don't be stupid. Personally I'd be long gone just to save myself some drama.

Please get out of this.

Too much drama that you don't need.

There are so many other women out there that don't have all this baggage that will make life a lot easier!

This only looks like it will cause you a world of hurt!