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  • Dec 22, 2011, 11:15 AM
    raindrops_
    What's love?
    I'm always wondering if it exists, because I never loved someone. I don't even know what's love other than the Korean dramas I watch. I don't know anything about it, but I'm always sad because, you see, in my country, people propose and you say yes if he has a good job or something. This could be someone you've never met, so I'm kind of sad because I think I'll never meet the person I love even if he's somewhere in this world. Xd
  • Dec 22, 2011, 11:33 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Most people when they talk about "loving" someone they first meet, are confusing love with lust, sexual desire or nice friendship.

    Love will combine those, but love is something that grows, nothing that will happen in one week or one month.
    It is what there is in 3 years or 6 years after some of the lust has died away and what is there in 30 years when both may have gained weight or lost hair.

    A couple in an arranged marriage or marriage for a good job can find love as well as one that marries for other reasons,
    It is done from respect, from honor of each other, by communication.
  • Dec 22, 2011, 11:42 AM
    raindrops_
    I know, but that's not the way I want to find the person I love. Anyway, thanks.
  • Dec 22, 2011, 01:52 PM
    Fluff_E
    True love should never have anything to do with sex. Love is caring and, accepting someone no matter what they do. The abstract things in people not the physical.
  • Dec 22, 2011, 06:11 PM
    AlaiaRae
    Love is different for everyone. Love is unexplained. You know it's love when it happens. When you know it is love you won't ask if you love that person you'll be sure. Love for me is amazing but sometimes very hurtful and annoying. When you love someone and they love you they know you so they can annoy you almost as fast before any one else. But in the end love is fun and adventurous. At the end of the day love conquers all.
  • Dec 24, 2011, 10:20 AM
    raindrops_
    Thanks, everyone, for answering.
  • Dec 24, 2011, 04:03 PM
    talaniman
    How old are you? Just because we haven't loved yet, doesn't mean we never will.

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