We had an affair for 6 months and wants to remailn friends and still talk every day..

What do I do. I had an affair with my neighbor. He was a friend for years. He wants to reamin friends and talk everyday. I don't know what to do. He says he loves his wife? And didn't know why he had an affair... but he is still drawn to me.. help!

You don't know why "he had an affair"? Because you were willing to do it with him! Now you love him but he wants to be friends. I think you are both on a path of mutual destruction. What about YOUR husband?

So don't see him every day, draw back, be distant.

When you are in love with someone who isn't in love you with, it's best to go cold turkey. NO CONTACT at all. He's being selfish seeing you suffer (assuming that he knows, which it sounds like he does). He wants his cake and his cupcake too. GRRRR. Be angry. You have to see him as selfish. Find friends to drag you other places all together. (You are single? You don't mention a husband... )

Thanks, JP, missed that.