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  • Dec 20, 2011, 02:01 AM
    ianaiscool111
    Why does my best friend hate me?
    Backstory: me and my friend Lucy met at school she was new so I showed her around instantly we became best friends we were like that for 3 years we went camping in the summer ad even went to camp! Until we were in the same class as her twin sister and her sisters best friend then she began to hang it with them more and that was fine because I knew we would always be besties! Until she switched classes as me! With her sister and her best friend! I cried but she didn't even care about me! Then she ignored me for months.. Until I said hi on Facebook chat then she replied: "get a life" I'm only 11 and I kind of felt like killing myself but I just thought of it! The next year I checked our videos of the " iana as Lucy show eps. 2" and I was going to take it down then I saw this: "<3" from Lucy in the comments and it was posted 17 hours ago! Then I was really confusing does she still like me? PLEASE I NEED YOUR ANSWERS!
  • Dec 20, 2011, 12:06 PM
    JudyKayTee
    No, she doesn't. She told you on Facebook.
  • Dec 21, 2011, 07:28 AM
    joanna1999
    Possibly, you never know what other kind of pressure there is. Ask to talk to her in person with no one else around and just tell her how you feel. This happened to me last year with several of my friends. I finally talked to one and she talked to the others. Finally, one apologized and we became friends again.
  • Dec 29, 2011, 11:14 PM
    grammadidi
    I think she likes you, but you will probably never be best friends again.
    Sadly (in some ways) as we grow up and mature we all change. We like
    Different things, activities and people. Some of us mature faster than
    Others. Some become more caring and get involved with helping others and
    Some just become more involved in themselves. Childhood and youth, the teen
    Years and even young adulthood - they prepare us and form us into who we
    Will be as adults. Each experience and every person we meet along the way
    Has a part in that.

    Sometimes people that we were friends with in the early years DO become our
    Close friends again. However, if we push it or get too deep in worrying
    About it, we just push them away. So, the best thing to do is to take every
    Friendship and every experience and learn from it. Care for your new friends
    But don't cling and be afraid to let go because of this loss. Trust me, if
    They are meant to be in your life they WILL come back one day. Learn new
    Things from everyone and live your life. You will make many friends over the
    Years. Don't take it personally when one of their lives goes off in a
    Different direction. Be happy for them, for they are learning and growing...
    As are you. Sometimes you will move off in a different direction, too.

    For now, you have learned that sometimes people move on and sometimes they
    Will come back. You have learned that through life you will lose people from
    Your life but life IS worth continuing on and making it the best you can.
    Those are things that will help you a lot in later years. Who knows?? This
    Experience might have started the path to a career in the future. Maybe you
    Will be a youth counselor because you will be able to understand and
    Empathize when a child feels like dying because they lost their best friend?
    You just don't know why these challenges are placed in your path until you
    Finish the walk.

    In the meantime, just believe that you and Lucy are just walking a different
    Path right now and may meet up again in the future. Keep on loving her, but
    Move on and find other friends and most of all realize that you have to make
    Yourself happy because nobody else can do that for you. You WILL get through
    This and be a better person for it. It's not your fault... it's life. Accept
    This as one of your life lessons and proof that you are growing up and
    Moving along the path of life the way you are meant to.

    Everything will work out just the way it should... I promise!

    Hugs, Didi

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