Hi,

How is the best way for me to break up with this guy when I know he will be so hurt and he will start crying and yelling, and then I will feel horrible, bad and I will hurt, but then for the best I know we just do not fit together ? How do I break up with him then ?

How do you break up with someone without hurting him? You don't. It's impossible to do. Breakups always hurt.

The thing is, people usually get over it. It's a part of life. You can't sit back and stay in a relationship that isn't right for you simply because you don't want to hurt the guy. Just be as nice as you can about it, be honest, and move on.

Is this the same guy?

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If it is you don't break up with him, you stop kissing him and tell him to leave you alone. He has a problem and won't respect your wishes to be just friends, so he may have to have his feelings hurt, to GET IT!!

Not by phone, text, or FB.

In person.

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