Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating a while, and the last time we were dating, (yes we broke up and got back together many times) he would always find a way to see me or kiss me or anything. And he would always kiss me around anyone, and hug me around anyone. But now, for the past week he has been like almost avoiding me. And he always says he loves me and never wants to lose me. And like when we were at a party we were going outside at night and he wouldn't even touch me or look at me. I went one way around the house, he went the other. I try to talk to him or hold onto him, he walks away or just does something else. I just wish things would go back to the way they were before he started acting like this. It probably doesn't help that about ten or twenty people have said that either I broke up with him or he broke up with me. None of it has happened. But I'm afraid that it will soon. Please help me, I just want the love of my life back.

Well, I suppose you stop trying to hold on to him and actually TALK to him about how you feel in loving, kind way not desperate or he'll think he has control over the way you feel and has thepower to do whatever he wants to do to you. So stand your ground and tell him you love him. Hope this helps.

Maybe you should talk to him and find out what's the problem with him.

It has to be something and maybe it has to do with all these break ups/makeups. I don't know, but maybe it's the same problem but hasn't been resolved yet.

Maybe you should talk to him. Talking always helps. Tell him that this bothers and annoys you. Remember yo also do your part in making him happy and never give him reason to not want to be around you. This used to happen with me and my boyfriend he become distant toward me and never called me beautiful any more or ddnt seem as attached to me as he once was. I asked him why and he said I was pushing away. We had a fight about it and after that didn't talk to each other for a few days. Dung that time I realized he was right. I was pushing him away. That break helped me realized what I could do to make our relationship better. I'm not saying your situation is just like mine, but maybe it helps in some way :)