I was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and he was at friends house and we were laughing having a good conversation and then my boyfriend said that his friend liked me so I said okay, and then he said, "Don't worry Bro, She's easy to get." I don't know what he meant. Is it good or bad. I'm only 13 so I have no clue.

If you are sexually active it normally means you are easy to have sex with. If not, one would assume that you are easy to get as a girl friend.

No it is not a good thing

Uhhmm. The only time I've heard that before, was not meant to be good... Well, can I ask how old your Bf is?

Well, first of all it probably means that your boyfriend doesn't respect you. He could have been just joking or doesn't completely know what it means himself, or he could have been putting you down and calling you a slut. What do your instincts tell you?

Whether he was serious, it isn't healthy to allow yourself to be treated that way, especially so blatantly.

Finally, I hate to be "that person" but if you are thirteen and sexually active, I would recommend talking to an adult to get information and help. Sex isn't easy or consequence free. You need to make informed decisions if you are making adult decisions. If your reputation is important to you, you may also want to squash this "easy to get" nonsense. Respect yourself and, ideally, others will do the same.

It means he is telling his friend that you will have sex easily and giving him permission to have sex with you as he has. You are being disrespected by this idiot of a boyfriend, and passed around to his friends to use and play with. NO this is NOT a good thing, and for sure they will tell other guys so they can use you.

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age 13, i have regrets because i feel like prostitute and i feel uglyier since ive had sex

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Stop having sex, because you are confusing like and love and going about showing it the wrong way. You may think he loves you but he does NOT, sorry.

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5-6 months, I'm 12 he is 13.. We talk o the phone about 7 hours everday and he always calls me, "Mother Licker" I have no clue what that means, and if its good or what..

He is 13 years old, and we haven't even had sex yet. all we have done is hug and kiss, not even held hands

7 hours every day? You need to find and do other things, do your parents know you spend too much time on the phone with him?

Do you talk at night when you are suppose to be sleeping?

But it sounds bad to me, but why not ask him, if you don't like it, tell him so.

Truthfully, the best thing you can do is not even be dating at your age... you are way too young. As already mentioned, this guy is an idiot and he is degrading you. No, it's not good what he's calling you or how he's treating you. The best thing you can do is to dump him and not only wait to find someone that can respect you, but find some self respect as well.

Also, I noticed in one post you said you are 13... now you're saying that you are 12... so?

Kissing is more than holding hands. Let me ask this. How long has he been your "boyfriend" and how long before you started kissing him?

I agree with the others this was not a respectful way to treat you, but given your ages, its possible he didn't really know what it means.

This is why children shouldn't be trying to emulate adult behavior. You are too young to have a boyfriend (do your parents know that you consider him your boyfriend?) you need to mature a bit more before you can try adult behaviors.

I've merged your two threads. After reading the second thread, it is clear that you are engaging in risky behavior for someone your age (whether you are 12 or 13). You need to talk to your parents and see if they approve of this behavior.

Yes my parents know I have a boyfriend, and we have been going out for 5-6 months and we started kissing last week

OK, I think you need to talk to your parents about what he says about you. Also about how much time you spend on the phone with him.

Also at your ages, what do you think having a boyfriend means?

Is this love real? Me and my boyfriend, Trevor, have been dating for 5-6 months now, he is 13 I am 12. We talk on the phone almost all the time. My parents know I have a boyfriend too.. We have hugged, and kissed but never have held hands. Which seems weird to me.. Our first kiss was last week, but I think we are taking things slowly. Every day on the bus we sit by each other, but sometimes he can b a little mean, but not overly mean.like once; he told me to stand up cause I was almost to my stop, I said make me and he actually lifted me up. Ha-ha then once when we were waiting in the isles, he was standing behind me, and he pushed me a little and told me to keep going, I bumped into a kid in front of me then Trevor grabs me around the waist and say hugs me and says sorry. He has given up Weed, and Drugs for me, which is really sweet of him. Like once we were on the bus and he was talking about going to one of his friends house and smoking some weed then he grabs me from behind and tell me, "Not really Baby, I quit weed for you, I'm sorry." I don't know if our love is real or not. He's told me that he has wanted to have sex with me and that. But I just don't know. For Christmas he bought me a 200 dollar present. He is nice and mean sometimes but I still love him. But I don't know if our love is real or what? Could someone please help!

No, following your other questions, he sounds like a hood, calls you names, and most likely at 13 was using drugs, give me a break, with the names he uses, from your other posts he most likely tells his friends he is having sex with you, "the reason for saying you are easy"

He sounds like trash that good decent girls have no business even wasting the time of day on. And I assume they think that at 13 a boyfriend may be sitting on the bus, but ask them about the other posts, the names he uses, and the hug and kiss and I get they will ( or at least should if they are good parents) have other plans for him.

First, I merged your threads again. Please don't keep starting new threads over essentially the same issue. It will help us help you if we have the full background.

I don't know about your feelings for him, but I think its clear his feelings for you aren't real. You are both too young to be in a romantic relationship (Frankly, I think your parents are very wrong in allowing this). By the way, do your parents know he was into drugs?

A 13 yr old who was into drugs in the first place, is bad news. And I don't believe for a minute he has really given it up. The fact that, at 13, he is even talking about sex is an indication that as soon as you let him, he will drop you.

I said it before, you are a child trying to act like an adult before you are ready. I think you are more in love with the idea of being in love than being in love itself. And I think you need to go back to being a child for a few more years before you start trying too hard to be an adult.

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But I don't know if our love is real or what? Could someone please help!

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Maybe for you it is, probably the first time you have had so strong a feelings, or gotten so much attention. And its real for now for you, but this attractive bad boy is a dope smoking thug, who wants to impress you with lies, disrespectful thug talk, and wants sex.

Two hundred dollar Christmas gift? And you believe that? Quite smoking for you? And you believe that? Love makes you blind sometimes but no reason to be this punks fool. Or his "HO"!!

Have sex, that's exactly what you would be. "mama licker,", "easy"?? Come on that's rap for "HO"! The only help I can give you is don't let that love make you stupid for a nickel slick want to be punk, who thinks you are an easy ho!!

What does it mean when your boyfriend asks you "if you wanna WRESTLE with him".

You still trying to figure out what your horny boyfriend tells you? Have you ever asked him what HE means?

All young horny guys like to wrestle with a girl. Because he is all hormones and horny.

And he can put his hands all over you without looking like a pervert or without you slapping him

He could use a few slaps from your previous posts.

Please don't post the same question ( wrestle issue) on separate posts, you asked it here and are getting answers.

This is the entire issue, you are 12, you are not ready for a dating and boyfriend that will involve sexual undertones, since obvioiusly you don't understand it, and don't understand what he is wanting from you.