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  • Dec 8, 2011, 07:53 PM
    K_C2011
    How do I get her back?
    Okay. My names Cody, and I've known this girl for about 8 years. We were on and off the hole time. Well we lost touch for three of those years and she found me on FB! And we reconnected but recently broke up. Now I'll be laying in the bed with her rubbing her hair. And she'll look up at me and start crying out of no where. I say what's wrong, she says nothing, I just love you so much. And she tells me she wants to be with me forever. And she'll never leave me. And that no matter what she's beside me.

    One night she was telling me how much she loved me, and that she wants to be with me forever then two days later, she says that she needs time to get over her ex? And then she won't text me, call me, come over, or nothing. She says she needs time. But I love this girl with all my heart and will do anything to be with her. What do I do to get her back?. Please help me :'(
  • Dec 8, 2011, 08:28 PM
    Bubbles_200645
    Give her her own space right now. She need time to figure out what she wants in life. She might let you know either way. All I can say is just leave her be for a while but, let her know you are still there. Shot her a message or a text once and a while. But make it casual like " hey how are you" or something like that. I hope it helps
  • Dec 8, 2011, 08:32 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    I moved this to relationship, it was posted under baseball and I could see no baseball connection.

    You can not make her do anything, you can ask, you can beg, but it appears something is going on. If she will not talk about it, there is nothing you can do
  • Dec 8, 2011, 08:46 PM
    talaniman
    Give her what she asked for guy, I mean off and on for 8 years, she most likely will be on with you again.

    How old are you both, that would be an important fact to know.
  • Dec 8, 2011, 10:20 PM
    K_C2011
    I'm 22 she's 18. She says she has doubts but I had doubts in every relation ship after I broke up with my ex. As ling as u run away shell never be able to move on right? I fought the doubts and why went away
  • Dec 8, 2011, 11:37 PM
    K_C2011
    Man forget it I'm threw she said we wer not getting bak together! So I'm not even going to try no more I have nothing left and I don't know what els to do

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