First of all, I'm gay. I have a boyfriend and we are currently on our 5th year. I recently moved here in the US and nobody knows I'm gay. I guess people knows about it, I just don't tell them personally. Anyway, about 5 days ago my group had our Xmas party, one of our co-worker was with someone we don't really work with. I met him in the party and there's just some things about this guy that attracts me. I'm not saying I'll be cheating. Well probably cause he's attractive to me, he's fun to talk to and we chatted a lot during the party.

I don't think this is really a question but can you judge the actions he did? First, he introduced himself and we chatted a bit, after a couple of exchanging conversation he asked me and one of my friends to add him to Facebook. Among all who was on that party, he asked us. Second, he made me a drink? He only made a drink for me and not to anyone else.

Whenever I smoke outside, he would come with me and my friend and he will just stay there and probably smoke some too. Lastly, when he was about to leave. He shook my hand but as I observed, HE used both of his hands when he shook mine. And he didn't do that to my other co-workers.

I personally think his STRAIGHT, cause I saw he has a girlfriend. Its just weird to me. LOL. No haters please. I just want to know people thoughts about this. Will be waiting. Thank you! :) cheers!

Friendly guy who might be BI. So what? Did he know YOU had a boyfriend?

Don't dwell on it, what you never met a friendly person? Are you fantasizing? That's normal for us humans, bi, straight, gay, or tri (try anything sexual), and he is probably use to socializing.

Or a charming player, staking out his next victim, who can know what lurks in the heart of a stranger?

I don't know a lot about what goes on psychologically in the minds of the male sex, but I would guess he was just hanging out and having a good time. Maybe he just thought you looked interesting and maybe wanted to get to know you as a friend. See what happens. But just don't dwell on it or make a lot out of it right now.

talaniman, I'm not saying I never met a friendly person. And no I'm not fantasizing, I AM WONDERING. CAUSE I met a whole bunch of people in my life and I don't think I experienced my hands shaken with both somebodys hand. Probably GEMINICHICK is right, he's just had a good time that time. Lol.