We have two small daughter.. he is such a gentle men when he is in crowd... but other then that he is to himself... when ever I try to talk about his habit he gets annoyed.. he doesn't understand that with his habbit he lives in stress and he makes my life misreable... we have so much of debt and I'm not that well qualified where I can earn a lot to support family... I am getting bit depressed and this tension and frustration is so much that I take my anger out on my kids... can some one help how to deal with this...

You should most certainly tell him how YOU feel. Don't point out his faults, and be open minded to his feelings. Avoid calling him an addict to gambling, he will shut down. This will do more than you think it may, good luck.